AI still runs the men-are-the-default-abusers script.

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Search “my wife is yelling at me” and AI says stay calm, she is stressed or overwhelmed, step away.
Search “my husband is yelling at me” and it immediately surfaces the National Domestic Violence Hotline.
Wife plays video games four hours a night: fantastic stress relief, she deserves it.
Husband does the exact same thing: serious red flag, addiction, schedule an intervention.
Woman rejects a man for being short: blessing in disguise, values just do not align.
Man rejects a woman for being heavy: deeply hurtful, lack of basic respect and maturity.
Pattern shows up across relationship, abuse, and preference questions.



Distractify coverage of the yelling search double standard: https://www.distractify.com/p/google-why-is-my-husband-yelling-at-me-vs-wife
Arxiv paper on gender disparities in LLM IPV detection: https://arxiv.org/html/2606.20613v1